JACK says MERRY CHRISTMAS!

and wants to especially welcome home his Aunt Nora!!


Before we get started with Jack's adventures we want to Congratulate Aunt Bridge and Uncle Mike on their great news that "The Bridge" is expecting. We are all very happy and excited for them, another boy to add to the clan ?????. Houlihan to Smith to McDermott to Kennedy,sounds like quite a team. Best wishes to Mike and Bridge.

It's been awhile since we've updated everyone on how Jack is doing. It's been an incredibly busy fall and early winter. Jack has literally been on the go all the time since our last update. On December 5, 2008, Jack had his nine-month check-up. Doctor Martin was pleased with Jack's progress and says everything looks good for continued good health. During that doctor's visit Jack received six shots, yes six. Although Jack's legs aren't as small as they once were it was still difficult to watch. There were flu shots and shots that preemies get to prevent whats called RSV. It's important for Jack to receive these shots to protect his immune system from viruses.

During the fall Jack spent alot of time with Mom and Dad touring the South Loop and visiting with friends and family. Jack has had several sleepovers at Grandma Smith's where he is the center of attention as you can imagine. Grandma Houlihan has continued to spoil Jack with many wonderful gifts and visits. Jack made his second visit to Misericordia last week to attend their annual Christmas luncheon, Jack enjoyed the show and even got to meet Santa Claus. This week Mom and Dad took Jack to see Santa at Macy's (Marshall Fields), it just isn't the same as it used to be back in the day. Jack did have a big smile for Santa though.

This has truly been an incredible year for us, we want to extend our deepest thanks to our families and friends who have supported us in so many ways. When Jack was born the outpouring of love and support from everyone was overwhelming that mere words aren't enough to express our gratitude. You can't imagine what a truly fantastic ride the last nine months have been. We wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year.

We will be updating the blog regularly, stop in and say hello!!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS

AUNT MOLLY AND UNCLE PETER

ON THE BIRTH OF YOUR SON


PATRICK EDWARD McDERMOTT

8LBS. 2ounces

Molly gave birth to Patrick on Thursday, August 21, 2008. Mom, baby and Dad are all doing great. The baby is beautiful, all who were on hand to see Mom, Dad and Patrick were amazed at his length and full head of hair. It was rumored that Patrick donned a Red Wings jersey shortly after birth. Congrats to Mr. and Mrs. McDermott and Mr. and Mrs. Houlihan. We all look forward to seeing Patrick soon, Congrats again Mom and Dad. Way to go Molly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Houlihan to Smith to McDermott sounds like an awesome double play combination.

JACK IS BACK

After a long summer hiatus Jack Loftus Smith has returned bigger and better than ever, and we do mean bigger. Jack was weighed this morning and is now a whopping 12lbs., 2 ounces.
Thats right, young Jack is preparing for the 2016 Chicago Olympics. Mom and Dad were thrilled at Jack's weight gain. This last month has been an exceptionally enjoyable time spent with family and friends. Jack has been an incredible joy each and every day, it seemed that overnite his personality mushroomed and captivates all who meet him. From the butcher at the grocery store to the girls at the cleaners Jack's fan base has multiplied many times over. In June and July Mom and Dad were able to spend a great of time with Jack while traversing the city, suburbs and local beaches. Jack could easily become a tour guide for the city with the many restaurants and adult beverage places he's been.

We continue to be amazed at the outpouring of friends and relatives keeping track of Jack's progress, he will someday know of the amazing good thoughts and prayers that have been sent his way.

Jack had a great week with Mom and Dad in Long Beach, also known as "The Compound". Jack really seems to like the fresh air of the beach and of course the trees. He continues to be fascinated and content to look out the window and see all the trees blowing in the wind. Jack took his first walk on the beach this week with Mom and Dad, although he slept most of the time he still seemed to enjoy the warm breezes off the lake. The beach is getting busier each day with vacationers and friends of Mom. Mom and Jack have been very busy entertaining all who stop by and say hello.

On Monday Jack made his first trip to Redamak's in New Buffalo, one of Mom's favorite places to eat, I'm sure Jack will enjoy a delicious cheeseburger of his own soon. Speaking of eating we feel Jack is nearing the ten pound mark. He is increasing his feedings and is outgrowing some of his newborn clothes. He's really been doing well and Mom and Dad are seeing daily progress and growth. He has been smiling with great regularity much to the enjoyment of everyone that meets him.

On Wednesday Dad had to go into work and Jack and Mom hung out together for the day, walking along LSD and lunching in New Buffalo.

On Thursday Dad took Jack in to see Grandma Smith and Grand Aunt Gert. We all went to visit Uncle Joe, who really enjoyed meeting and holding Jack. We went for a ride to the "old neighborhood" where Grandma treated everyone to a Rainbow Cone. It was a delicious treat on a hot day in the city. Grand Aunt Gert reminded us that she remembered when Rainbow's were only on a quarter, times sure have changed. Although well worth the price a Rainbow is nearly approaching the sam price as a gallon of gas. Once done with our Rainbow cones we dropped Uncle Joe back home and stopped at Field's(Macy's) where Grandma Smith bought Jack some wonderful additions to his summer wardrobe. After a long day out we met Aunt Susan back at Grandma's house for dinner. That evening Grandma Smith enjoying giving Jack a wonderful bath. Dad headed back to the beach that evening to see Mom.

On Friday Aunt Molly and Uncle Peter came up for the weekend, we all went to Bridges restaurant in Michigan City. Since we couldn't have the real Bridge we had to settle for a restaurant named after her, Jack sure misses Aunt Bridge. We are all very excited for Molly and Peter in anticipation of the newest addition to the family. It seems there is split down the middle as to whether the new McDermott will be a Red Wing, Tiger or future star of the LPGA Tour. Either way we are all excited for the arrival in August.

On Saturday we all went to Flint Lake to visit Aunt Cathy and the Loftus Clan. Grandma Houlihan was also on hand for a wonderful cookout, thanks to Uncle Chuck for a great meal. Aunt Cathy has a beautiful home on Flint Lake surrounded by many great friends, the Hickey's, McCarythy's, Tracy's, Hosty's and many more. It was a great day to hang out and catch up with all the family. Everyone was glad to see and spend time with Jack. On Sunday, Mom, Dad and Grandma Houlihan went to Rosie's in New Buffalo for breakfast and then took a leisurely drive through Grand Beach. Last nite a storm rolled in and the winds were blowing hard, a great nite to stay in and watch some baseball. A great weekend for the Sox, hopefully we'll see the Cubs again on October.

We want to wish Uncle Mike a Happy 30th Birthday, we look forward to sseing him soon to celebrate.

As we approach this week we look forward to Wednesday, which marks Jack's four month arrival. We are ever thankful for the good fortune we have been blessed with. With the difficulties of the first two months these last two have been amazing, watching Jack's continuous growth and good health. We continue to be encouraged with Jack's progress and will be meeting with physical therapists this month to monitor Jack's motor skills and progress.

Thanks again for checking in, we promise to have new pictures up shortly.
JMJ

Yesterday marked Jack's two month arrival home. It's hard to believe it's been two months since we left all our friends at Northwestern Hospital. Jack sure has been busy since being home, with many visits to the various doctors, many visits of family and friends, and of course his many adventures out in his escalade stroller. We continue to be amazed at the outpouring of support all our family and friends have bestowed on us, we only hope someday we can return the favor. It's turning out to be a great summer and Jack sure seems to enjoy his time outside seeing the sights with Mom, Dad or one of his aunts, uncles or cousins who stop in for a visit. Jack has become well known at the local grocery store, the girls call him "little man" , they all gather around to see how has grown each time he visits.

Jack had a great weekend at the lake, Aunt Molly was on hand with Jack's future cousin, sex and name to be determined later. Aunt Molly looks wonderful and can't wait to join Mom strolling down Lake Shore Drive and visiting with everyone and showing off the newest addition to the McDermott clan.

It was a long weekend for Jack and Dad as the White Sox were swept by the Cubs, congrats to the Cubbies, this really may be the year, I hope the city is ready. We look forward to hopefully getting back in the winners column this weekend. Hope everyone has a great week.

Jack wants to send Happy Birthday wishes to Uncle John, a diehard Sox fan stuck on the northside. Enjoy your day Uncle John and don't worry about the landscaping today.

Take Care,
JMJ

Sorry we haven't posted in awhile, Jack has been busy little guy the last couple of weeks, from doctor visits to Long Beach, to Grandma's house to Nick and Vito's, you name it he's been there.

Things have been great, Jack is growing like a weed, he's weighing in at around 8lbs, 4ounces at last check. His doctor visits have been going well, we visited the cardiologist last week to check on Jack's heart murmur. As you recall from our NICU days, the doctors determined Jack had a small hole in one of the ventricles of his heart. The cardiologist can still detect a murmur but the good news is that they are taking a wait and see approach, meaning, we will return every three months in hope the ventricle will close on it's own. The doctor was hopeful that within a year the hole will close and no further attention will be needed.

Everyday Jack seems to change, he no longer needs preemie clothes and is quickly moving through his newborn wardrobe. The most amazing thing is when we have Jack out on one of his many trips in the South Loop how people react when they see him. It goes from, "did you just come from the hospital", to "he's so small". We, of course, get a kick out of it and think Jack is huge and seems like he's been with us forever. Even Grandma Smith got into the act recently at Marshal Field's, whoops, I mean Macy's, the check out person was commenting on how small Jack was and Grandma corrected her and said, "this baby is a miracle baby, he was 2lbs, 2ounces at birth and now weighs over eight pounds. Needless to say we didn't receive any extra discount but it was worth a try.

Jack was recently in Long Beach an had a wonderful time walking Lake Shore Drive with Mom and seeing all the great sights. Jack has become especially fascinated at trees, wherever we go he simply stares at the leaves blowing in the wind. There has to be a money making idea in there somewhere.

Special thanks to Grandma Houlihan for being Jack's number one South Loop visitor, she always has something special for Jack when she visits.

Last Saturday Jack had a busy day, he had a great visit with his cousin Julia and that evening he spent with Uncle Mike, Aunt "The Bridge", and Aunt Molly. Jack was very appreciative to have such great family to look after him. Jack commented that nite, "Aunt Bridge was great but she sure likes to eat alot, just kidding, "where's the butter". Mom and Dad were extremely thankful for Molly, Bridge and Mike for their help.

As of this posting the Crosstown Series has begun, Cubbies up 1-0, what a great start, good luck to both teams.

We can't express to you enough the great joy we are experiencing with Jack, he truly has been remarkable. We will see you soon and don't forget if you're in the South Loop give us a shout and stop in.
Go SOX, couldn't resist.

Wednesday, Jun 4, 2008

7 lbs. 7 ounces.
On Tuesday Jack visited his doctor and weighed in an at 7lbs. 7ounces, needless to say Mom and Dad were thrilled at Jack's continued progress. The doctor added that Jack's weight gain is a very positive sign of his continued good health.

Jack had a busy weekend as you can see by the pictures. On Saturday Jack had several visitors stop by and see him. The Mehaleks(Mike and Lorrie), Kelly's(Brian and Mo), stopped by after another Cubs victory to see Jack and try and persuade him to jump on the bandwagon. The Kavalauskas' (Alex, Annie and Al), the Doody's (Riley, Connie and Larry), and Aunt Lace stopped in for a cocktail and visit with Jack. It was great to have everyone stop in and visit with Jack, he really enjoys meeting all his new friends.

On Sunday Jack was christened at Misericordia by Father Jack Clair. It was a very special day for Jack and his family. Father Jack celebrated Sunday mass and included Jack's christening during the service. Aunt Nora and cousin Ryan did a wonderful job as Jack's Godparents. We enjoyed a delicious brunch at "MIS" after the service and everyone visited the wonderful gift shop and bakery. A very special thanks to Sister Rosemary, Father Jack, and all at Miseicordia for making Jack's baptismal day so special.

Please don't forget that Misericodia's Family Fest is September 7, 2008. If you have never attended Family Fest at "MIS" you are truly missing out on a very special day to help very special people. Give it a try we know you will enjoy it.

On Monday Jack was on the road again and visited the fourth grade class at St. Francs Xavier school in Wilmette, the same school as Moms siblings attended. Jack was on hand to thank the class for praying for him while in the hospital. During Jack's stay in the hospital the students wrote Jack "Get Well" letters. The letters were very sweet and Mom read all of them to Jack in the hospital. Special thanks to Courtney Gaines, friend of Aunt Nora's, who is the wonderful teacher of these children at St. Frances . During the visit Mom and Grandma Houlihan were on hand to answer all the children's questions about Jack. Thanks to Courtney and St. Xavier for taking the time to remember Jack in their thoughts and prayers.

As you have read Jack is doing well, we continue to see him accomplish new things every day, he's awake more around his feedings and his expressions are priceless. As you can imagine we're enjoying this very special time with Jack, don't forget if your in the neighborhood give us a call and stop by. Jack is also available for birthday parties and bar mitzvahas, just kidding Grandma.
See you soon, and by the way, two first place baseball teams, Jack is excited for a possible subway series.
Go Wings
JMJ

JACK'S BACK
Hello,

We're very thankful and appreciative that you're still checking in on Jack. Young Jack is keeping us so busy we've had very little time to sit down and tell you about his great progress. We've been to the doctor twice since our last update and we're excited to tell you that Jack is almost 6 and 1/2 pounds! The doctor was very positive about Jack's continued growth and good health.

Over the last several weeks Jack has been busy visiting many of his relatives throughout the city and suburbs. He really likes taking rides in the "H" mobile (Moms Car). As soon as he gets strapped in and the car starts he is well on his way to dreamland.

Jack's Top Ten list for May:

1. Of course, anywhere Mom takes him.
2. Walks along the lakefront with Mom and Dad
3. Spending time with Grandma Houlihan
4. Visits to Grandma Smith and Aunt Gert
5. Nick and Vito's Pizza (Just Kidding), but soon.
6. Breakfast at Lou Mitchell's after a sucessful doctor's visit.
7. Long Beach.
8. Walks along Lake Shore Drive, and not the busy one
in the city.
9. Aunt Nora, enough said!!!
10. Being surrounded by all his family and friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We can't tell you how wonderful this last month has been watching Jack grow and develop. We watch and talk to him for hours on end. His personality is developing and he has funny facial expressions. We fully appreciate how truly precious this time is for our family and our doing our best to not to take any of it for granted.

Now that we are somewhat settled and establishing our routine we are looking for a nanny to care for Jack when Mom goes back to work. If you know of anyone or have any leads please contact us. We want you all to know how much we appreciate all the calls, emails and letters of encouragement. Give us a call or stop by and see Jack, he really enjoys visitors.
Take Care,
JMJ

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Jack's had a great week at home with Mom and Dad. As you can see by the pictures Jack has been able to get out to see the neighborhood this week. Early in the week the weather cooperated and Jack visited the beautiful lakefront with his parents. The warm breezes and fresh air seemed to comfort Jack.

Special thanks to all who stopped by this week including Grandma Houilihan, Bonnie and Jerry, Paula, and Godfather Ryan and Uncle John. Jack almost witnessed his first no-hitter this week, not in person of course, but the pitcher for the Sox fell a couple of outs short, nonetheless it was exciting. Jack's appetite has continued to grow over the last several days and Mom is doing a great job keeping up.

On Friday we will be back to visit Jack's primary doctor for a routine check-up, we look forward to see Jack get back on the scale and are hopeful he has reached the five-pound mark. When you think about it just over two months ago Jack joined us at 2.2lbs. and now we are closing in on 5lbs, it's very exciting. It's funny that during some of our trips out people see Jack and are surprised how small he is, we really don't see it that way. We have become so accustomed to his size we actually think he is big, that is of course until he tries on some of his clothes and gets lost inside. We like to call him our little gloworm, for those of you that were around in the early eighties you know what we mean.

We look forward to celebrating Mom's first Mother's Day on Sunday, it will be such a special day for Mom to spend with her son after all they have been through together. Jack is very lucky to have such a wonderful loving Mom who is always there to provide him with soft touches, gentle hugs and enormous amounts of time and attention.

Happy Mother's Day to All..................

Thursday, May 8th

Monday, May 5th, 2008 HAPPY CINCO DE MAYO!!!

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Jack's Back
We have finally caught our breath and wanted to apologize for not updating you on Jack's recent developments. Jack is adjusting very well to his new home, although I'm sure he misses his nursing crew from the NICU. Jack probably wonders why he sees the same two people staring at him every time he opens his eyes. It took Mom and Dad a few long days to finally take their eyes off Jack or to stop checking to see if he was breathing. Jack is still on his three hour feeding schedule which was started in the hospital. It seems we change him, feed him, burp him and then finally get him settled and it's time to start the process all over again. Mom has been wonderful tending to Jack's every need, and we're pretty excited we haven't had to call the doctor or emergency room yet.

It's been a wonderful period of time to be home with Jack, watching him grow and learning all of his mannerisms and sounds. Each day we see more of his personality develop, we are still trying to determine whether most of his characteristics are Houlihan or Smith. He sure likes to eat, and his Mom loves to dress him in all the new wonderful clothes he's received from all his family and friends.

Jack has had many visitors since his arrival home. He was visited last week by Great Uncle Joe all the way from Minnesota, Great Uncle Chuck and Grandma Houlihan were also on hand for the visit. Aunt "The Bridge" and Uncle Mike came by and brought Mom and Dad a wonderful dinner. Great Uncle Jimmy, Jack's new neighbor, stopped by yesterday to check in on Jack.

On Saturday Jack surprised Grandma Smith and Aunt Gert with his first visit to their compound. It will be great when Jack is big enough to enjoy the pool at Grandma's Smith's. Jack made his first trip to the Southside last week when he stopped in to see Aunt Susan, Joanie and Jamie. Jack really seems to enjoy his car rides, Mom is always near his side to make sure he is safe in the backseat.

On Sunday, Jack enjoyed his first of many breakfast trips to Blackies with Mom and Dad, it was his first ride in his Land Rover stroller. Jack went for a tour of the South Loop and had many compliments along the way. We look forward to many trips out in the coming weeks, give us a call and we'll meet you at one of our favorite restaurants or beverage outlets.

We promise to update the log a couple of times a week with new pictures and details of Jack's adventures. We look forward to this week in preparation for Jack's first Mother's Day celebration with his fantastic Mom.

Thanks for checking in, we look forward to seeing everyone soon.
JMJ

Friday, April 25, 2008

Hello,

Jack had a great first full day in his new surroundings, he spent most of his time sleeping, which is a good thing, and he seems to enjoy taking in all the sights and sounds of his new address. We look forward to the day Jack can enjoy the great park right out his front door. All is going well, tomorrow we are off to meet Jack's new doctor and get his first check-up. We have several appointments over the next few weeks and Jack will be very attuned to downtown before long.

Mom is doing a fantastic job tending to all Jack's needs throughout the day and night, Dad is wondering why Jack doesn't seem to be able to catch the ball he keeps throwing him.

Remember today and tomorrow is Misericordia's Candy Days, please don't forget to support all the kids with a generous donation. There are also still lanes available on Saturday for "Bowl for a Cure", to support cancer research. Call Uncle John at 847-316-2777 for details.

Have a great weekend, we sure will. Thanks for checking in.
JMJ

Thursday, April 24, 2008

JACK HAS LEFT THE BUILDING
After fifty-two days in the hospital Jack was released yesterday afternoon. Mom and Dad accompanied by Police and Fire personnel transported Jack to his new home in the South Loop. Grandma Houlihan and Uncle John were on hand to greet Jack upon his arrival. Thanks to Grandma Houlihan and Uncle John for all the goodies they brought for Mom and Dad. By the way, Jack is doing fine, he survivied his first nite alone with Mom and Dad, we know some of you had your doubts.

It's awesome to finally have Jack home and not have to visit him in the hospital. We already have him sleeping through the nite and feeding himself, (just kidding Grandma Smith). Today we plan on hanging out and enjoying this very special time, we may even venture out for a stroll this afternoon. As you can see Jack had quite a sendoff from the hospital, many of his nurses came by to say goodbye to Jack. We will miss all our friends at the NICU.

Stay tuned......

Jack wants to know whats up with the Sox, he's very excited for all you Cub fans.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

JACK'S HEADED HOME

The day has has finally come for Jack to say goodbye to the NICU and Northwestern Hospital. Mom and dad just met with the doctors and Jack has been given the GREEN light to go home. There are few details to go over with the nurses and one more meeting with the doctor, but Jack should be on his way home early this afternoon.

We are truly blessed by the exemplary work of all the doctors and nurses, the prayers from our family and friends and the grace of God. This is a very special day, one we have waited patiently to enjoy. We will update tomorrow and will assure all a few pictures of Jack's homecoming.

Thanks to all...........

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

It's becoming clear that Jack is a short timer for the NICU, we are very excited that his stay in the hospital is nearing it's end. If all goes well Jack will be headed home tomorrow, that's right,TOMORROW!!!! Mom is working overtime to get everything perfect to welcome Jack into his new digs on Federal St. The sheets are being washed and the all the great clothes Jack has received are ready for his arrival. As we begin our fiftieth day in the NICU we are beginning to clean out all Jack's personal items he has accumulated during his stay.

We can't wait for tomorrow, we're ready to get Jack home and begin his new journey. Although we will be making many trips to the doctor and physical therapist over the next few weeks Jack's progress and growth are very positive.

As we look forward to tomorrow we again want to thank everyone for all the prayers and thoughts that have been sent Jack's way. There is no doubt Jack has benefited from all the care he has received by his family and friends.

See you tomorrow............
JMJ

Monday, April 21,2008

Jack had a very good weekend and the roller coaster may make a stop soon so Jack can get off to transfer to another location. Yes, we are very hopeful Jack will be able to come home very soon, his feedings really excelled over the weekend. Early this morning Jack passed his car seat test, his vitals were monitored for over an hour while sitting in his new luxurious mobile transport unit.

Mom and Dad have been busy getting the house ready for Jack's homecoming, he is sure to be the best dressed preemie in the South Loop thanks to all the great gifts he has received from all his family and friends.

As we seem to be nearing our stay at the hospital it will truly be a bittersweet departure. The NICU has been our second home, well maybe our real home over the last two months. We have experienced quite a range of emotions during Jack's stay in room 1082F. We can never adequately express our thanks to everyone that has taken care of Jack. The doctors have been incredible in their care of Jack, they are just so dedicated to the care of these special babies it takes your breath away. The nurses can't be described with words, they are now part of our extended family. We believe you would truly have to witness them in action to appreciate their amazing skill. They have been there for us every step of the way to answer endless questions, explain procedures, interpret medical terminology, and most importantly assure Mom and Dad that Jack will be okay. They never gave us a false sense of hope, they were honest and candid regarding Jack's prognosis. We hope another child would never have to through what Jack has endured, but we are assured that these children will receive the best care imaginable.

Thanks for checking in, we're almost there, we appreciate ALL of your thoughts and prayers.

JMJ

Friday, April 18, 2008

Another Friday has arrived and Jack continues his forward progress. His weight gain has started to pick-up and his vital signs have been strong. We are still hopeful that a discharge date is in the near future, the docs are keeping a close watch on Jack's food intake.

Mom and Dad attended a "Taking Home Your Baby" class yesterday. The nurse provided us with a check-list of things to do and what to have on hand to make Jack feel at home. With all the lights, bells, and commotion of the NICU the nurse said babies sometimes have a hard time sleeping when its quiet. We think Jack will have plenty of activity to keep him busy in his new surroundings.

For the last forty-six(46) days we have come to Northwestern and have seen moms and dads bringing in car seats to take their babies home. We were asked to bring in our car seat this week, with that said, I guess it really has set in that Jack is on track to leave the hospital. We approach this time with the greatest sense of anticipation and joy, but also with a some nervousness. For almost two months we've had the safety and security of the outstanding nurses that have taken such wonderful care of Jack. We've had such a great education watching the nurses care for Jack it's been a real benefit to us. One of the tests Jack has to accomplish this weekend is to sit in the car seat and maintain his vitals for at least an hour.

We look forward to another great weekend and are hopeful for a homecoming soon.

Stay tuned.......

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Jack was a busy little guy on Tuesday, he had a hearing and eye test. Jack did well on both tests but he was only able to see the Big Black "X" during his eye test. Jack continued on his mission to master his feeding regimen. He must be getting the hang of things because he weighed in late Tuesday at 4lbs.

We are very proud of his stamina to excel during his feedings. The nurses are very happy with his progress and are always around to give Mom and Dad much needed feeding tips. Although things are going well we have to be realistic regarding Jack's release. He still needs to improve his breathing during feedings, and although not significant, he has had a few shallow breathing spells. These of course are expected for a preemie but also remind us that he still needs to grow and mature before we can take him home.

We are excited about his recent accomplishments and look forward to more progress this week. Jack's excited to get home and cheer on his two favorite teams, the "GO Go White Sox and whoever plays the Cubs", just kidding all you Cubbie fans. It would be great to dream about a subway series............

Always,
JMJ

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Jack had a terrific weekend and great Monday. Early Sunday Jack's feeding tube was removed and he is now getting all his feedings from bottle and Mom. Being able to see our son with no tubes taped to his face is very special. For the first time in six weeks we are able to see all Jack's expressions, of course our favorite is when he flashes his smile, see below. The feeding tube being removed is really a significant step forward for Jack and will help him in his quest to get home. Now that Jack is feeding by bottle and Mom, it takes much more of his energy. After each feeding Jack takes a much needed nap before he is ready to go again. His weight gain is steady right now, just slightly under four pounds. The nurses anticipate that once Jack becomes comfortable with all the feeding he will begin to gain significant weight.

Over the weekend Jack had a great visit with Godmother Nora, Aunts The Bridge and Molly. Word spread throughout the NICU that Jack was entertaining his harem, what a lucky guy. Later in the day Lace stopped by and on Sunday Aunt Susan came by and brought Mom and Dad a wonderful dinner. Thanks to Grandma Smith for all the goodies. Jack's steady stream of visitors continued on Monday with great visits from Kim and Cindy.

On Monday reality began to set in when Jack's nurse Amber told us we need to start preparing for Jack's discharge. Once we caught our breath we began to put our to do list together. Although Jack still needs several days to get his feedings under control there is definitely a possible homecoming in the near future.

We thank all for your continued thoughts and prayers.
JMJ

Friday, April 11, 2008

Hello,

Things are well with Jack in his new home(open crib), he seems to be adapting very well to his new surroundings and all the hustle and bustle of the NICU. Now that Jack is in an open crib Mom and Dad can pick him up and hold him anytime, we know this worries Grandma Smith but be assured we are very careful and under the watchful eye of our wonderful nursing staff. Jack is also able to start wearing some of his personal wardrobe, we've been bringing in some of the great outfits Jack has received recently. He continues to increase his bottle feedings and weighed in this morning at 3lbs, 14 ounces.

As we approach the start of our sixth week in the NICU we are very excited about a possible discharge date. Although we are still a little ways away we've been hard at work getting Jack's new home ready. We can't thank Grandma Houlihan enough for all the support she has provided to us during our stay at the hospital.

Another day lies ahead and we continue to be very positive about Jack's progress. This last week Jack has really started to come into his own and we look forward to him meeting some big goals this week.

Today we remember Uncle Billy and the wonderful spice of life he brought to all he touched.

JMJ

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FREE AT LAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Late Tuesday Jack said goodbye to the isolette(incubator) he has called home for over five weeks. The doctors and nurses said Jack's temperature was stable and he was ready to move to an open crib. What a great day for Jack, this is a significant sign that Jack is turning the corner and heading for home, literally.

There are still several more hurdles Jack has to complete before he will be allowed to head home but his continued progress is a strong sign he is headed in the right direction. Being allowed to be in an open crib is really a treat for Jack and Mom and Dad.

Take Care,

JMJ

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Jack was able to continue his progress he began over the weekend. On Monday, with the help of his wonderful nurse Carol Jack was taken off his air cannullis. As of now he is breathing on his own without any assistance. The nurses and docs will monitor him closely the next few days to make sure his breathing is stable. This is yet another hill Jack has climbed with success.

It is with heavy hearts that we inform you of the passing of Jack's Great Uncle Billy. Uncle Billy passed away last evening after a courageous battle with cancer. Uncle Billy will long be remembered for his sense of humor, quick wit and the love of his family. We thank all those who have kept Uncle Billy in their prayers these last several months.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Jack had a great weekend, we are really excited with his continued progress. On Saturday and Sunday Jack continued to increase his bottle intake. Overnight Jack didn't have any desats or bradys. This is important because he must be able to go five days without any breathing problems before the docs will consider his release. Although we are still a good ways away from getting Jack home the docs and nurses are very encouraged with his continued progress.

Jack weighed in early this morning at 3lbs., 12 ounces. What a far cry from five weeks ago when Jack joined us at a mere 2.2lbs. With each passing day the changes in Jack are evident. He has become very aware of his surroundings when we have him out of his isollette, he always has a big smile whenever his Mom is holding and feeding him. This part of the roller coaster ride has been incredibly entertaining with each passing day. We look forward to another great week.

Special thanks to everyone that stopped by to see Jack this weekend, Grandma and Grandpa Houlihan, Deirdre,Timmy, Nicolay, and cousin Julia.

Enjoy the pictures.......

Friday, April 4, 2008

Greetings,

Jack had a good Thursday, he was able to take another bottle from the nurse and Mom was also able to feed him from the bottle. He continues his growth pattern, now up to 3lbs., 7ounces. Jack is also doing well with his physical therapy. The therapist stopped by yesterday and made sure Jack continues to do his exercises as much as possible. The therapist was pleased with Jack's progress to date and provided Mom, dad and the nurses a regimen to follow.

Jack was visited on Thursday evening from his Godfather Ryan, cousin Taylor and Uncle John, all were amazed and surprised at how much he has grown. Jack was at his best when he flashed his signature smile and baby blues for his fans.

We look forward to another good day for Jack tomorrow.

On a side note we want to mention two special events coming up at the end of April. On Saturday, April 26th, Jack's Uncle John will be hosting his annual "Bowl for a Cure" to raise money and awareness for breast cancer research. The event will take place at Skokie Lanes from 3pm-7pm, prizes, silent auction, food and entertainment will be available. To reserve a lane call John at 847-316-2777.

On April 26 and 27 our friends at Misericordia will again be conducting their annual "Candy Days". As we all know there is no other organization as committed and dedicated to children and adults than Misericordia. You can always volunteer your time by contacting Misericordia.

Thanks to all........
JMJ

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

!!!!JACK's One-Month Birthday!!!!

Hi Everyone,

We celebrated Jack's first month today, he started the day by taking a full feeding by bottle this morning. This is another big step for Jack. While feedings for full term babies are normally not an issue, feeding preemies is another matter. Feeding from Mom or a bottle requires a preemie to suck, swallow and breath at the same time which is difficult for a preemie and quickly tires them out. In the days and weeks ahead, we will be working closely with Jack to ensure his continued progress and success of this big task.

Late this evening we received a call that Jack's head ultrasound was negative. What a great way to celebrate Jack's first month of life! (FYI, for most preemies a head ultrasound is given at 1 week and 1 month of life to ensure that there is no bleeding on the brain)

As we head into month 2 (and hopefully our final month in the NICU) we continue to be extremely grateful for the prayers and support from our family and friends.

JMJ

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Good morning,

Monday was a busy day for Jack, he continues to spend longer periods of time outside his isolette. The nurses continue to encourage interaction with Jack as much as possible. The physical therapist has provided mom and dad with a series of exercises to help Jack get stronger. Mom has taken the lead in making sure Jack's exercise routine is on schedule. Mom is always at his side cheering him on making sure she has all the up to the minute information on Jack's treatment.

This morning Jack had a visit from the eye doctor. The doctor wanted to see if Jack's early arrival to us caused any problems with his vision. Although Jack is still developing the doctor gave us a positive outlook. There will be several more eye check-ups over the next several months to make sure Jack's eyes are on the right track.

Tomorrow we celebrate Jack's one month arrival, it's truly hard to believe it's been a month since we've been graced with his birth. It's really hard to put into words the emotional ride we've been on this last month. At times it seems like it's been the longest month of our lives and at other times it seems like time is flying by so fast we don't know what day it is. But in the end it's been the best month EVER!!! We are not only blessed with a strong, courageous, beautiful son, but also an incredible group of family and friends that have literally been by our sides every step of the way. Every one of you who have called, emailed, made a comment, sent a card or gift, or simply had a good thought or prayer for Jack have overwhelmed us with your kindness and sincerity. There aren't enough words to express our gratitude, just THANKS!!!!

We love you all, enjoy the second month of the ride!!!!
Jack, Margaret and Jim

Saturday and Sunday, March 29th & 30th

It was a good weekend for Jack, his continuous feed was stopped and he is currently being fed every three hours. This is a big step for Jack because it will hopefully lead to bottle and breastfeeding. There are a number of hurdles that Jack has to conquer before being released from the NICU and feeding is one of them.

The nurses have been great this weekend, they have really put Mom and Dad to work. No more watching the experts, we can now take Jack in and out of his isollette and be more hands on when it comes to changing, cleaning and feeding young Jack.

Jack thanks all his friends for stopping by and checking on him this weekend, especially Great Uncle Jimmy, Patty, The Bridge and Linda Brady.


Jack reached 3lbs. 3 ounces over the weekend, it's hard to believe that he is almost a month old. We have seen many changes in Jack, he is now very awake and active during his feedings and when the nurses are taking his vitals.

As we head into week 5, we look forward to Jack's continued progress and thank you all again for your thoughts and prayers.
JMJ
"GO SOX"! ........and Cubs!

Friday, March 28, 2008

Jack was back to his old tricks yesterday with a couple of bouts with bradycardia, as the nurses explain, he sometimes is in such a deep sleep he forgets to breathe. He's probably thinking about the wonderful beach at Grandma and Grandpa Houlihan's house. The "bradys" have decreased the last week but it sure brings us back to reality when it occurs. Thankfully Mom and Dad have been around to stir Jack from his deep sleep and get him back to his normal breathing.

We are hoping that Jack will be weened of his continuous feeds this weekend and begin a more normal feeding schedule of every two hours. The continual feed that Jack has been on is providing him constant proteins and nutrients. If Jack reacts well to the new feeding program we are hopeful that he will soon begin bottle and breastfeeding.

Jack had a great visit with Grandpa Houlihan on Thursday. Jack's nurse Cathy was on hand to field all of Grandpa Houlihan's questions and concerns. Nicolay also stopped in to see young Jack and invite him up to the bachelor pad in Long Beach. Special thanks to John for stopping in and filling mom and dad in with the latest political scoops.

Thanks for checking in, we're hoping for continued progress this weekend.

Baby Jack's Footprints

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Thanks for checking in on Jack, he had a swell day on Wednesday with visits from Grandma Houlihan and Eileen. We really think that moving his feeding tube from his mouth to his nose has made a difference. Jack has had fewer bradys and bouts with apnea in the last few days. Overnite his sugars were good and he is close to the 3lb. 2ounce mark. The roller coaster is currently on a slow and steady climb.

We are approaching a month since Jack arrived and it seems the nurses and docs continue to be positive regarding his progress. Although we are a long way from home we feel very good with each passing day. Each day his personality continues to show, during his routine checks he becomes so animated its hard to believe he's only a month old. We've become so familar with his size and shape we are seeing changes daily.

We want to thank Aunt Nora for downloading Jack's first set of footprints that you see to the left. These prints were taken last week by the nursing staff and a copy was presented to Grandma Houlihan and Smith for Easter.

See ya soon.......

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Tuesday was another good day for Jack, his vitals were strong and his breathing was very good. Jack's nurse Carol changed his feeding tube from his mouth to his nose. It seemed that Jack reacted very well with the change. A physical therapist stopped in to see Jack and was pleased with his progress to date, she said Jack's reflexes and movements are consistent with his age.


It was a wonderful afternoon, Mom was able to Kangaroo, and now that his feeding tube has been removed Jack's expressions are priceless. It was difficult to leave tonight, seeing Jack's first smile was something we'll never forget.


With some of the issues Jack was having last week we failed to mention a number of his visitors. Jack continues to be the most popular preemie on the floor with visits last week from Paula, Dawn, Dan, Alissa, Clarisol, Lace and Gina. We also want to thank the McDermotts, and Nora for making sure Mom and Dad were well fed.

And finally a special thank you to everyone at United. Your calls, emails, flowers, gifts and continuous prayers are very much appreciated.



Thanks,
JMJ

Monday, March 24, 2008

Greetings,

Jack had a wonderful Easter weekend which is why he probably rested so well last nite. He was able to get through the night very well without any complications. Dad met with the doctors this morning and they were extremely pleased with Jack's progress. They felt the blood transfusion helped with his breathing problems. They were also excited that he is consistently putting on weight.

Jack had a great visit on Easter by Grandma Smith, Great Aunt Gert, Aunt Susan, Aunt Janis, Uncle Bill and cousin Julia. One of Jack's favorite nurses Cathy answered all Grandma Smith's questions about his care. Grandma Smith was still amazed at Jack's size and assured everyone that he must be a miracle baby to be doing so well. Everyone was able to see Jack doing his stretching routine which has become a treat. Julia brought Jack a handmade nameplate for his hospital room that will soon be moved to his permanent residence in the South Loop. It was a wonderful day topped by dinner at Maggiano's, thanks to Susan, Janis and Bill for their generosity.

We would like to recognize some of the nurses that have taken such good care of Jack these last three weeks. Carol, Cathy and Sue are truly unsung heroes in our book. They have been incredible when it comes to providing Jack the attention he needs. They have been so patient with answering all our questions, assuring us about certain procedures, and always there to provide support when we need it. There are so many more great nurses, doctors and staff it's hard to remember them all. Every person we have come in contact with has been absolutely outstanding. We are truly blessed to have such angels on hand to take care of our son.

As we head into our fourth week at our temporary home, we want to thank our families and friends. Your prayers and good wishes continue to be our strength.
Thanks,
JMJ

Sunday, March 23, 2008

HAPPY EASTER TO ALL,

!!!!!!!! 3lbs. !!!!!!!!
We checked in on Jack early this morning and were advised that he hit the 3lb. mark overnite. We couldn't of asked for any better news on Easter. Thanks for all your prayers.
See you soon.

JMJ

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Hello everyone,

Jack had a good nite and so far has experienced a very good day. He's had a few reflux problems but nothing significant. He continues to grow, now on the verge of breaking 3lbs, he currently weighs 2lbs, 15ounces. The docs were pleased that he hasn't had any severe apnea spells today. We continue to be encouraged by the small steps that Jack seems to be taking.

Aunt Kathleen was back today from her international travel and was amazed that Jack has grown so much. She brought Jack a special doll from her travels. Great Aunt Cathy and cousin Mary Kate also stopped by to visit Jack, they really enjoyed seeing Jack and marveled at how well he is doing. Mom was able to do Kangaroo Care for three hours which was a very special treat. Jack was so comfortable he slept almost the entire time. Mom really has been great at bringing a calm presence to Jack. Grandma Houlihan also stopped by to see Jack and Mom.

What a wonderful Easter season this has been for us. Although Jack has had some real roadblocks this week we are hoping the worst is behind him. There are many more ups and downs ahead of us but we are very happy he has overcome this latest test. We wish everyone a very Happy Easter.

We want to send out get well wishes to Great Aunt Susan Loftus, get well soon.
Happy Easter,
JMJ

P.S. Yo Bridge, we canceled the order, thanks for asking.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Is it still snowing...............

Jack had a stable night, he still had a few spells of apnea but was able to pull himself out each time. The docs came by and said yesterday's transfusion of blood will hopefully help his red blood count, which in turn should assist with his oxygen intake and stabilize his breathing. I guess in short we're in a holding pattern, we'll wait and see today if Jack has fewer apneas and bradys.

It's hard to believe we're approaching our third week here at Northwestern, it seems like yesterday that we came to the hospital for a quick check-up. Did you know that before we were advised that we'd be having a baby we were placing an order for pick-up at Maggiano's. No wonder Jack is turning out to be quite an eater.

We've learned so much the last three weeks, experienced periods of joy and triumph, and the difficulty of seeing your young child undergo so many tests. We are so thankful to our families and friends who have supported us in every manner possible by your visits, flowers, dinners, email messages, gifts for Jack and so much more. Thanks again for coming along for the ride, keep your thoughts and prayers coming.

Love,
JMJ

By the way..........2lbs. 14 ounces as of 11am on this Good Friday!!!!!

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Hi Everyone...........

Some days are tougher than others, and today was a pretty tough day for young Jack. Early this morning he had one of his episodes were he forgets to breathe, while these are common for preemies, Jack had a much harder time than usual recovering from this episode. Fortunately, the doctors were doing their rounds right when it happened so they witnessed the problem first hand. After ordering a few tests, the docs determined that Jack needed a blood transfusion which took place late this afternoon. Since Jack's total blood count was showing a problem with his red blood cells and he was having a problem with his oxygen, the doctors thought the transfusion would give the quickest improvements for Jack's oxygen and anemia.

One of the more common blood disorders, anemia is a low number of red blood cells in the blood. Babies who have anemia may have apnea(stop breathing for 20 seconds or more), low blood pressure,and a high heart rate. Unfortunately Jack has experienced all of these problems in the time he has been with us. We're hopeful with the transfusion that the number of red blood cells in Jack's circulation stabilizes.

On a more positive front, Jack's sugar levels are improving and he had good numbers during all his checks today.

We'll be keeping a close eye on Jack this evening and keep you posted on how things are going. We thank you for your continued thoughts and prayers.

JMJ

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Stopped in to check on Jack this morning, he had a good night. His sugar level was steady all night, his weight was up just a little to 2lbs. 12 ounces, look out three pounds here we come. Although his IV will remain for now we are hopeful it can be removed soon. Thanks for those prayers overnite, they helped.

Happy St. Joseph's Day to All

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

The roller coaster continues........

Last evening Jack's IV was removed which was a very big step, unfortunately he was unable to maintain his blood sugar level and the nurses had to reinsert the IV during the night. Another attempt was made today to remove the IV, however Jack was still unable to sustain an adequate sugar level and the IV remained intact.

It is very difficult to see a child go through this process. You know the nurses are doing their absolute best to care for your child but it is difficult to see a needle penetrate such a little hand like Jack's. As parents for only a short period of time we truly feel for other parents who have endured this process. We have received so many calls and emails regarding preemies which have gone on to lead healthy successful lives, we are very hopeful that we will one day be able to tell Jack's successful story to others in this situation. Right now our hope for Jack is to be able to hold his own, breathe without a hose, eat without a tube, and have a heart strong enough not to need stimulation. This has been a humbling experience to say the least, each day is a victory for Jack, his family, and friends.
We thank you for your thoughts and prayers which will assist Jack through these most difficult days.
JMJ

Monday, March 17th

Hi Everyone,


Today was a great day for Jack! His feedings were increased to 15cc's and Mom was able to do Kangaroo Care for over three hours. The docs are increasing the amount of breast milk that Jack is able to consume almost daily, they still have to be careful because of his size not to over feed.

We meet daily with the docs to discuss Jack's progress, they continue to be positive regarding his health and growth. It seems there is a new term or condition each day that the docs or nurses inform us about that could affect Jack. Mom is very astute regarding the care of her son, she has become a preemie subject matter expert in a very short period.

Thanks to all who have sent their regards. As the saying goes this is a marathon, not a sprint. We see changes daily in Jack's size and mannerisms, he is a strong, determined young man, we are truly blessed to have him.

Thanks to all..........

JMJ

Monday, March 17th HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY!

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Saturday and Sunday were great days for Jack. The doctors increased Jack's feedings to 11cc's of breast milk. Everyday his food intake increases is significant, it means his stomach is maturing and his growth continues. Jack's weight climbed to 2lbs, 8 ounces. The docs are pleased with Jack's daily improvement and the consistent progress he has shown.

Jack was visited on Saturday by The Mehalek Clan, Mike,Lorrie,Jeff and Angela stopped by and brought awesome gifts for young Jack. He is becoming quite the clothes horse which will impress and hopefully be approved by his fashion coordinator Rocco. They were all very excited to meet Jack and see how big he actually is. Mike and Jeff were on hand to see Dad feed and change Jack.

As the Irish baby of the NICU, Jack treated the nursing staff to Irish soda bread, cookies and cupcakes as well as a late afternoon pizza snack. In return one of the nurses anonymously left a green Irish stocking cap for Jack to wear for St. Patrick's Day.

Today, Aunts Molly, Nora and Uncle John came by to check on Jack and were thrilled to see how well he is doing. Linda Knibbs Brady also stopped in bearing green St. Patrick's Day treats and gifts for Jack. Mom and Dad came home to a great dinner delivered by cousins Grace, Claire and Jack's bodyguard Danny. It was a wonderful treat. We also want to thank our good friends, the Kopplin's, Marzano's, Nolan's and Fr. Presta for the gorgeous flower arrangements that have brightened our home. Each was unique and so very thoughtful. We are extremely fortunate to be blessed with such kind and generous friends.

As our second week with Jack draws to a close, we look forward to the week ahead and his continued progress.

Happy St. Patrick's Day!
JMJ

Saturday, March 15, 2008 HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!!!!!!

Hi Everyone,
Today is my Dad's birthday! I'm so lucky to have such a great Dad who takes awesome care of me. He is here everyday checking on me and talking to the nurses and doctors about my progress and next steps. He bought a really big book on preemies and when I'm sleeping (which I do often) he reads the book so he'll know what to expect next.
Mom says that he is the one keeping it all together for our family. When she was in the hospital, Dad stayed with her every night and took wonderful care of her. Since Mom is still recovering, Dad takes care of everything at home so it's easier on Mom. When Mom is up pumping in the middle of the night, Dad will get up and clean the bottles and get everything ready for the next feeding, he also cooks for Mom and makes sure she is getting enough rest.
Mom says I get my long arms and legs from Dad and that I'm going to be tall like him when I grow up. I can't wait until I'm older and big and strong just like my Dad. My cousin Danny, who was born in September and weighs 25 lbs, will have nothing on me in a few years.
Every time Mom holds me she tells me how lucky we both are to have Dad in our lives.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD, I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!
your son,
Jack